I gotta tell you , for me, life is never a steady sure thing.
I am either working my way up on a project or sliding down from a let down. It never stops. Up and down,and I never can predict when the down will change into an up rather quickly , or slowly. (Courtesy of free-graphics.com) Today is a down type day, we were under the assumption that everything was all set for the move. The financial guy last week told me not to worry, that everything was fine.
Now me
not understanding the “everything was fine” was not really meaning “everything was fine”
well I have been packing, gave our notice to the park we live in, ordered a POD, weeded the sign, plants flowers and plants, packed some more, and today was suppose to be a brief meeting with the financial woman for the place we are buying the home from. Yep, a quick going over some papers, and poof, then the closing in a couple of weeks. Well, that was not quite the way it went. It seems the lender needs an “assessment” of other pieces of property that have been sold or purchased , that were multiple listed, and the transaction had to be within the last year, and the property needed to have a double wide on them, within a 10 mile radius, – ( breathe) to compare the cost of our project to these transactions. Now the catch ( if all the stipulations are not enough) is that the cost of these transactions needs to be 105% of our cost for the land house deal. As the lender will only loan us 95% of whatever these other properties went for. Somehow, this does not coincide with my financial broker stating “everything was fine.” ( But maybe it is just me!)
So this leaves us in a little bit of a bind,
as now they are asking if I have a retirement fund to maybe withdraw from to come up with an undetermined amount of $1000.00s to make the deal work. I can not do that. I do not have a lot in my 401 K and I would have to pay it back in a year. We have already committed to $6100.00 down. So for us to start the journey back up, we need to have either the land owner, the dealer or the bank work with us. And if they can’t, well my up hill optimism says, heck we have packed 3 rooms up already, we fixed up Earl’s entrance to his community, and we have weeded out some stuff we had hidden in closets. Once I unpack the about 30 bins that are packed, this house will seem pretty big to us.
Hopefully, everyone will put their heads together,
and figure out how they can make this work with all the issues as they are now. This 10 mile assessment seems ridiculous, being this land is in a rural area, Most folks look like they are set in their individual spots they live. So I am disappointed in the events of this “full moon day”. I was told by the financial lady to see what the financial broker group comes up with. They will let us know in a day or so.
My words of wisdom are-
if it is meant to be….than it will be. Everything happens for a reason. I am not giving up, I just wish that the escalator I am going up was not running in the down direction as I try to climb it. Love to all, Cindy