Life is unpredictable, it is challenging at times, it is easy to forget that life is not infinite. I sometimes look at our grandkids and realize how much life is in my rearview mirror. We had the three kids here a few weeks ago for the weekend, I loved every single second of it. This past Year and a half has been such a weird time, with a pandemic, no one seeing anyone, having to do air hugs, doing more on line ordering, grocery pick up when possible, and not spending time with those who mean so much to me.
Mark and I have spent countless hours talking, playing Yahtzee, doing games on our phone where we challenge one another, and spending time home. I wont say we are being paranoid, I kinda look at it as being cautious. Neither of us are physically fit and young, both things that make us a better risk for getting pretty sick if we were to get the virus.
So we got our vaccines once they were available and really interact with only a few people. We have a couple close friends we have spent some fun times with, and we have masks when needed and we have the term “social distancing” imbedded in our brains.
Well the weekend with the kids was a treat. Briella , Brandon and Preston are all very wonderful kids, unique in their own ways, yet they are so close to one another too. The boys love doing games with Grandpa and Briella and I tend to do stuff together . And there are times we all do stuff together.
Briella loves to help me out and it is funny how she tells me she will take care of me if I ever need help. She has a laugh that will make everyone laugh, she has dreams of the future and all that could lie ahead. She wants to always look her best, She loves warm bathes, and time to sit and talk.
This picture reminds me of her reaching to me to offer help. She is so full of smiles, life, and she has a good heart. She truly cares about others.
Brandon and Preston are both very caring kids too. Brandon being the oldest is kinda watching the other kids all the time to make sure they are behaving. He, Preston and Grandpa will play Yahtzee, Sorry, Trouble or some made up game. Listening to them laughing and enjoying each other is enough to warm the heart on a cold winter day.
Preston has a unique ability to find humor in things and some of the things he says can’t help but make us all laugh. He is witty and quick witted. He can entertain himself for hours, but loves the interaction with others. He is good at teaching things , and extremely creative. He has a mind that is always thinking and analyzing. He asks questions that can sometimes be surprising for his age, he is very affected by the world around him. He tries to keep life balanced. He loves to help out and his wanting to do things right really shows when he is working on a task. And has a great idea on when he needs to just have some down time.
Brandon is the more serious, compassionate type, and very sincere. He truly cares how he comes across. He loves life and is very quick at picking up different new things. He analyzes and has a detective type of ability. He listens and absorbs the world around him. He wants to help with projects we have going, and being a tad older he is more and more able to do more grownup type things, like he loves to mow and he snow blows for his family. He has a deep compassion for animals and for doing the right thing.
I look at time with them each as a blessing. And even though we have not shared as much time together as we used to, each time we do it is like no time was in between.
As the kids age, there are so many things to consume time, things that are important to try as they grow through the years into adult hood. Sports, friends, family time, all is important to growing healthy. I think they each know how much they mean to us, and we know how much they love us too. We don’t need to be in the same house to know that, it is unstoppable from afar.
As the world turns and time seems to fly by, pandemic continuing in one way or another, I am truly thankful for what we have, and every night I thank God for the gifts life brings. I know there is heart ache and pain in this world, and when those times happen, I know God is there to carry us through. I also know that life gives us few guarantees, and we can’t plan the future to be the way it comes out, so knowing that no matter when lies ahead, that there are people who know I love them and I know love me, well I can’t think of anything better.
Until later, Mrs. Justa.